Should I Get Back Together With An Ex?

When you have a relationship that ends You may feel like all you want is to turn back time and get them back. You figure you'll do anything to keep them and consider what things about yourself you can change. After a while you even start to dwell on it. Things in your normal life seem trivial without them there. All of a sudden you get a phone call or a knock on the door, and they are there wanting you to come back to them.

You have a choice you need to make right then and there. You can get back together with them or you can take the pain and turn them down. What you need to know to determine what you will do is how your decision will affect your future. On one hand you can go back and on the other you turn them down.

If you go back to them you need to be sure that it is not going to be a repeat of the last relationship you just had with them. If it only lasted about 2 months, then maybe something went wrong early on. If it lasted 2 years then you may have to work a little harder to make sure it works this time around. There could be any number of times when something went wrong and it could have been anything in that 2 year period.

When you start the relationship again, really start over. Don't skip anything just because you have done it before. Go on a first date. If you are confident that you know what was wrong then start over at that point, but try to make amends, depending on who was in the wrong and what you can settle on, it may be easier than you think.

If you don't think its best to start over with them then be honest. Don't string them along. The only thing that can come out of that is hurt feelings and disappointment on both sides. If something was really wrong with them then tell them. Same as if it was something wrong with you. Tell them, and if you both want to wait a little while to try and improve the problems than go for it. You can always take a breather and try again in a few months. But make sure that's what you really want to do. Do not make any promises about staying single though. You may run into someone who you would be great with, and then you only have a choice of letting them go or breaking your promise to your ex and that could ruin a potential friendship.

The one thing to keep in mind no matter what is that you have to have confidence in yourself in order to have confidence in a relationship. Weather its one that you are repeating or a new one altogether. Getting back together with an ex should never be something that is done on a whim as you are only setting yourself up for more problems.

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